Wow orgasm denial has gotten complicated recently.

I like to be controlled sexualy by women. I don't know why. I guess I like to be different from the norm of the male-controlled relationship. Well this control naturaly extends to orgasm, it's so hot to have a hot girl fully in control of your orgasm. When you get to cum, how intense you get to cum, and even if you get to cum at all, it's all up to her. It goes well with some light femdom stuff. Please her, do everything for her, and she'll let you cum after you've earned it... or she won't, if she feels like being a bitch that day. It's all very exciting.

so yeah, that's basic orgasm denial, but there's so many ways to make it better. Tease and denial being the simplest one and one that I just love. The excitment of being denied is so much more when you've been teased to the edge and you desperately painfully achingly want to cum. She can kiss you passionatley, grind into you, whisper in your ear (or even a breath, man that works on me so well). She can use her hand not in the classic fast pumpin style, but a playful teasing stroke that won't quite get you off, but feels so good. Or if you have a fetish and she uses that to her advantage, watch out. A woman's foot against my cock sends me through the roof, and it's not like I ever got off from one of Kelsey's footjobs, she'd just tease me with light strokes and got me harder than I've ever been before or since. It's an amazing feeling to be that hard, that close to gettign off, and then to have her stop becuase she's bored or tired or (by far the best) becuase she wants to see my reaction of frustration and pleasure as my cock lies there throbbing.

Then there's ruined orgasms, of which there are several kinds. There the "palming" or "thumbing" kind, where the girl physicaly blocks off the end of your cock so you get a retrograde ejaculation, but that's not attractive to me at all. The better version is the abandoned orgasm, where the woman gets you off (usualy with a handjob, but this could be done with any act, I'd love to see a footjob one) and then as soon as you've reached the point of no return she pulls away. You'll cum, but you won't be getting any stimulation while cumming and it will give a much reduced sense of physical pleasure. Bonus points as always if the girl smiles and maybe even laughs at what she was able to do to you. I mean the a major part of what makes this stuff so hot is that the woman get psychological satisfaction from controlling the man's physical satisfaction. A haughty smirk or a satisfied evil smile can get me hard just by themselves.

Post orgasm sensitivity torture is another, and my current favorite, twist on orgasm control. After a guy (or girl for that matter) gets off, you get extremely sensitive and generaly don't want to be touched for a minute or however long until you settle back down. But hey, if a woman is controlling your orgasm, she gets to control what happens afterward as well. I've seen a few forms of this. In one, the woman is using a moderate or fast steady pumping jerk and just doesn't miss a beat through the guy's orgasm and then keeps the same rythm afterwards when he's busy writhing in pain. In another, the woman has been teasing the guy slowly and gently, and then switches to fast pumping action once he cums. In still another, she uses a slow, full length passionate handjob which continues through orgasm. This one's great because with every stroke you have time to anticipate the incredible sensations you'll be feeling once she gets to the head. A further draw of this is that the guy absolutely has to be restrained. The sensation is so powerful, that a guy will do anything to get it to stop, but what kind of control does she have if you can stop her? Since there's nothing physicaly that you can do to stop her from torturing you, this is where begging comes in. Beg and plead and she might take pity on you and stop, but probably not. I've only seen this done via handjob, but conceivably it would work with other acts as well. I'd give anything to see or experience a footjob post-orgasm sensitivity torture session. Nylon stockings would only add to the sensation and would be blissfuly unbearable.

Talking is key in all this. The woman knows what she's doing and lets you know. There's two kinds of this I've seen: the bitch and the innocent girl. The bitch kind says likes like "It hurts doesn't it! tell me it hurts!" and "This is what you deserve! Squirm for me!" That's damn hot, but so is the innocent girl. This softer approach says things like "What's the matter? Stroking is feels good right?" and "sensitive? It's been sensitive this whole time. I don't know why you're reacting differently now." These are both amazing and it's annoying when a good torture handjob is ruined because the girl keeps her mouth shut. The best one I've seen had a guy stuttering "please please p-please", to which the girl says "Oh? please please please what?" The guy gives an anguished "P-please stop!" to which the girl replies "Aww, I'm sorry, but stop means keep going. You still haven't learned anything." and then she sensitivity tortures the hell out of him.